It is not because you do not want it enough.
It is not because you are not intelligent enough.
It is not because you are not worthy enough.
It is not because fate is against you.
It is not because someone else has already won your prize.
The reason you have not already gotten what you desire is
because you are holding yourself in a vibrational holding
pattern that does not match the vibration of your desire.
That is the only reasonever!
And an important thing for you to now understand is that
if you will stop and think about it, or, more important,
stop and feel about it, you can identify your very discord.
So now, the only thing you need to do is gently and gradually,
piece by piece, release your resistant thoughts, which are
the only disallowing factors involved.
Your increasing relief will be the indicator that you are
releasing resistance, just as your feelings of increased
tension, anger, frustration, and so on, have been your
indicators that you have been adding to your resistance.
“Ask and It Is Given”
Chapter 4 – How Can I Get There from Here?