Kia asks: My hair loss really concerns me as I am a woman of 34. I understand that everything comes to us by law of attraction. I have been told before that I should ask my own self what to do. How should I do this and how can law of attraction help me stop my hair loss?
Answer: All our answers are within, accessible in our Higher Self. We create illness for our own reasons and we, at a different, deeper level, know what those reasons are. This may be hard to believe, but this is what deliberate creation is all about. We are the only ones doing it. We are not victims; it is not coming to us from ‘outside’ of our selves in some random fashion.
So, here’s what you do. Remind yourself that you have all the answers within and you just have to be quiet enough to hear them. Relax, sitting or lying down – it doesn’t matter. Then tell yourself that you want to understand the cause of your illness. Tell yourself you will understand the reasons why you created this, the payoffs for it, and the remedy for it. Tell yourself that you are ready to know. Thank your body for creating this for whatever reason, and tell it that you no longer need this condition and that now you want to understand it so you can release it. There is no right or wrong way to do this. Don’t get anal about doing this right. Speak from your heart as if you are speaking with a close friend who loves you very much.
If you are a meditator, do this just before you meditate. You can also do this just before you go to sleep and ask for answers in your dreams. If you are in touch with your guides and angels, you can ask them to show you the answer. If you are not comfortable or familiar with these techniques otherwise, just do it sitting quietly, undisturbed for 5-20 minutes. That seems like an imprecise range of time, but I give you a range because you should sit for however long is comfortable for you without becoming fidgety or anxious. When you are tired of sitting, go about your day and forget your request. The answer will come as sudden insight, usually while you are doing something else.
As with making a request to any friend, they may not get back to you right away. They may be calling when you are on the computer, they may not be able to answer right away. With your Higher Self, it is not that the answer isn’t given, it’s just sometimes we don’t hear it. Trust, that with any friend, they will answer you and you can ask that you clearly understand the answer when it comes.
Do this daily, or a few times a day, whenever you feel the urge, for about a week or so. Trust that the answers are coming – they always do. This is a skill that you have to practice. If you feel the answer hasn’t come after a period of time (a week or so), it is OK to ask again. It is also important to let go of the outcome between askings, so that you can be receptive to the answer.
Remember: Ask and it is given.
Seek and you will find.
Knock and the door is opened.
In your asking, ask yourself when this first occurred, what was happening in your life at the time. What are the payoffs for it, i.e., what are positive things you get from it. A payoff could be something like feeling unattractive so that you don’t have to be in a relationship and so you are protecting yourself from being hurt. Or it could be something entirely different. All illnesses have a positive reason for being created in the first place. Not necessarily a ‘good’ reason, or a well thought-out, logical reason, but a reason that your body / subconscious mind thought at the time was a reasonable solution to a dilemma you were in. After you know the reason, tell your body you no longer need to respond in that way any more. That you choose to be healthy and you are asking it to help you. You can do this even if you do not find the cause or the payoffs. Just make a clear decision that ‘I will be different now’. Then see yourself with a full head of beautiful hair. Feel it brushing your shoulders. Feel the wind through it. Hear your friends saying how pretty it is and how fast it’s grown. Feel it, see it, and experience it in every sense. Even smell it freshly washed with your favorite shampoo.
The most important part of this is trust. Trust in yourself and your Higher Self. Your body cells renew themselves daily; your whole body is new every 7 years. The only reason why it looks just like it used to, is because we believe it will. Our thoughts hold the template or mold that shapes us. Start believing your hair is different and your cells will make it in that image.