Law of Attraction tells us that we create our reality by our thoughts. This is now substantiated by discoveries in quantum physics. So, many of us, when we hear this, begin to think about winning the lottery. And nothing happens. Then we decide Law of Attraction doesn’t work. Law of Attraction works ALL OF THE TIME – that is why it’s a “law.” So if you have felt poor all your life, felt like you can’t get ahead, felt like “people like me ever get any breaks,” for instance, Law of Attraction will continue giving you more experiences like that.
You can’t spend 5 minutes on a new thought and 23 hours and 55 minutes thinking the old thoughts and have anything change. Law of Attraction reflects your dominant and most practiced thoughts. (And attitudes, beliefs, expectations, feelings, and all that is going on under the surface of your conscious awareness.)
There is a science to changing your thoughts. Most of our thoughts are just habits or patterns of thought we’ve lazily fallen into. We tend to keep on thinking either, whatever our first thought was about a subject, or what the loudest voice says about the subject – and the loudest, and most persistent voice on any subject is usually on our TV. Psychology and the branch that deals with changing habits helps us understand how to change our thoughts. There is a whole new discipline in psychology called positive psychology that, ironically, teaches a great deal of what Law of Attraction has taught for centuries. (Sort of like Columbus ‘discovering’ what lots of folks knew was there all along!)
There is a science to attracting what you really want. That is the science of vibrational management or as Abraham calls it, the science of deliberate creation. Deliberate, conscious creation requires that you put out a congruent vibration. Your thoughts, feelings, attitudes, emotions, expectations and beliefs ALL need to be in alignment with the thing you want to happen. If you think, “I want to win the lottery because I have so many bills to pay,” the vibrational emphasis of that statement is on “many bills to pay.” On the other hand, if you say to yourself, “I want to win the lottery because it will be so much fun!” that is a stronger, more powerful statement. “Winning the lottery,” and “so many bills to pay,” are contradictory energies – they cancel each other out. “Winning the lottery,” and “fun” are on the same vibrational frequency and they amplify each other, making your statement, aligned, congruent, stronger and more powerful.
I’m not telling you that you can win the lottery if you start using law of attraction, but I am definitely telling you that you can have a better life with law of attraction. If you would like some help in holding aligned, congruent thoughts to deliberately create the life you desire, join my list or contact me.
Hi,
Very good explaination in this article. It tells why we don’t always get the good things we are wanting to come into our lives. It is good that you tell the people that they must be thinking about good and positive thing MOST of the time. Most people don’t get that concept. Thanks for reinforcing it!
mary i
That’s an excellent article, explaining some of the reasons why the law of attraction doesn’t work for so many people. I really like the fact that you have mentioned the scientific proof behind the law of attraction, and especially the aspect of changing habits – it does support my point that the law of attraction is not a magical trick, rather it is a scientific law, and in order to master it, you need to take specific practical steps, change habits and put some effort and time in personal development.
Yes, the Law of Attraction works without fail, but reflects your dominant and most practiced thoughts. We must also understand that the Universe works at its own speed. Although instant manifestation may sometimes happen, our desire will manifest in the universe’s timeframe rather than ours! It could even be that the universe knows that we are not yet ready to receive our desire.
Hi Shanna
Thanks for your comment, I really appreciate it. While I agree with part of your comment, I have to disagree with the other part of it. Yes, we do create from our dominant vibration. And yes, instant manifestation is possible. The Universe works at its own speed, but its speed is instant! You ask, the Universe gives. Totally, completely, absolutely, honestly. The reason it can take a while for us to see or experience our manifestation is because we have not yet become aligned with our desire. We aren’t seeing ourselves with it, or believing it is possible for us. We are the ones who hold it back. The Universe gives to us freely. When instant manifestation happens, it happens because every part of us is believing in the fulfillment of our desire and we accept it. That is why law of attraction is a LAW – it doesn’t think or decide for us. It merely gives us what we think about and believe.